Keep Your Love on - by Danny Silk (Leather Bound)

Book Synopsis

You can keep your love on for a lifetime.
Quality love relationships do not happen by accident; they are built through persistent hard work. In this devotional for couples, author Danny Silk reinforces the three basic principles of the Keep Your Love On book--connecting, communicating, and setting boundaries. Each devotion includes quick daily readings, Scriptures, and thought-provoking questions that will help you build, strengthen, maintain, and heal your relational connections.
Keeping your love on is both a mindset and a heart condition. No one can make you do it, and no one can keep you from doing it. Learn to live out the very best of who you are, and the all-elusive intimacy experience you crave will be well within your grasp.

Review Quotes

Keep Your Love On helped me finally understand how to build and protect healthy relationships. Danny's teaching on connection, communication, and boundaries made everything so clear and easy to understand. Learning and living the KYLO message daily has changed my life and relationships forever!
--Christian Zamora, husband and father

KYLO was a Holy Spirit-led choice for me, and it has changed my life in many ways. Not only has my marriage been restored, but other relationships are also more intimate with proper boundaries that keep me empowered, whole, and healthy. I am able to keep connections strong while also knowing how to say "no" to things I feel uncomfortable with.
--Jordan Davis, youth pastor and business owner

I grew up in a family with a dysfunctional communication style (one parent passive, one aggressive, and everything swept under the rug with appearances being the most important thing). Sadly, I saw this continue into my own family after marriage. Once I was introduced to KYLO, everything improved in our family: my connection with my husband, my connections with my children (especially how I parented), and connections with others. We have been able to break the cycle! Hallelujah! This has recently become evident as my parents after forty years of marriage are struggling in their relationship and communication. Of course, I just referred them to Keep Your Love On, and they ordered it. Now I have hope!
--Emily Johnson, wife and mother


I feel like my wife Angie and I have always had a great marriage, but the KYLO principles have helped us take it to a deeper level. Before KYLO, I never realized how much I was choosing to love her at a safe distance because of fear, rather than pursuing the goal of connection. KYLO has given us the courage to walk the journey of setting aside our old habits and fears in order to make intimacy our target.
--Josh Haas, pastor

Keeping your love on meant learning how to love myself, set healthy boundaries, and manage "me" no matter what was happening around me. Every area of my life--my family connections, professional relationships, business and ministry--continues to be strengthened beyond what I could imagine as I practice inserting love where fear used to be. Living in love feels like freedom.
--Bernii Godwin, wife, step-mom, school social worker

The tools KYLO provided me in my life have changed the legacy of my family. Choosing love over fear means I can approach conflict to understand others, rather than force agreement. Not only that, but I now have the confidence to participate and set boundaries for respectful communication for myself and others in any situation.
--Jayden Godwin, husband, father, and founder of Rise up Catering.


I have spent years looking for help for my family and our relationships. The principles of KYLO brought tremendous hope and healing into our lives. I told my family "I am not good at this, but I am determined to become good at it." Now as my own life has changed, I am seeing my family become whole and healthy.
--Don Trail, husband, father, and businessman

Last year, our ministry went through a difficult season where relationships with a few of our young leaders fractured and blew apart. We are so thankful that The Life Academy and KYLO principles were made known to us. We immediately began a heart internship with our leaders and missionaries using these teachings. Four months in, we are blown away! We are seeing so much growth and can honestly say we are the healthiest community we have ever been. By cultivating an environment of powerful people who are choosing love over fear with a desire for connection, operating in respectful communication and healthy boundaries, we are changing the world! We are forever grateful to Danny and his KYLO Team.
--Cheryl Smith, co-founder/pastor of Eastgate House of Prayer Mission Base

About ten years ago, our family was in crisis. My wife had a breakdown, and I was at a loss for how to stay connected to God, to her, and to myself in this time. KYLO gave me the tools I needed to be a husband and father who was both empathetic and empowering. As a result, we remained connected and hopeful through this season. KYLO has literally changed my life, I can't recommend it enough.
--Dave Hill, Bethel Kids Director, HeartSmart TV founder, husband, and father.


The Keep Your Love On message changed not only my life but my marriage. Understanding that I have the ability to get my needs met and that God is the supplier of all my needs took the pressure off my husband and allowed us both to rely upon God, seeing each other as a way God can supply our needs not the only way. It was a game changer to realize God was not limited by our capacity; He is infinitely creative and able to meet all of our needs according to His riches and glory. This opened my husband and I up to partnering together to find solutions.
--Genesis Eakes, President/Founder of Genesis Eakes International Corporation.

Keep Your Love On has given me the tools to make love believable. Jesus said, "No greater love has any man that they would lay down their life for another" and KYLO teaches the practical tools to make that an active expression. My life has been so impacted, as well as the culture in my marriage, in our home, and even in our church. I'm forever grateful to have learned these powerful tools and principles.
--Katieann Browning, Senior Leader of Resolute Ministries

About the Author

Danny Silk serves on the Senior Leadership Team of both Bethel Church in Redding, CA and Jesus Culture in Sacramento, CA. He is the President and Co-Founder of Loving on Purpose, a ministry to families and communities worldwide. Danny is also the author of six books covering subjects of building successful relationships, a culture of honor, and strong families. Danny and Sheri got married in 1984 and currently live in Shingle Springs, CA. They have three children and three grandchildren.