Single - by Nicola Slawson (Paperback)

Book Synopsis

In her thirties and single, journalist Nicola Slawson was sick of reading narratives about how all single women must be miserable and desperate. She wanted stories that reflected her experience, so she started The Single Supplement, a newsletter for single women that didn't patronize them or assume that their only goal in life was finding a partner. The newsletter immediately took off, gaining thousands of followers and winning awards and features. Now Slawson is ready to cement everything she's learned into a book.

Using her personal experiences along with insights gleaned from years of interviews, Slawson offers us an open, witty, and warmhearted exploration of single life, taking an honest look at its challenges but just as keenly celebrating its joys. She writes about feeling left behind and navigating friendships as people get married and have children; managing personal finances, career, ambition, and self-reliance; deciding whether or not to be a single mother; dealing with the shame and stigma of being single; embracing the freedom and happiness that can be found in being single; and so much more.

A vibrant life is within reach for all of us, with or without a partner. Whether you are single long term, recently, keen not to be, happy to be, considering becoming, voluntarily, involuntarily, and so on, Single is an optimistic companion, providing comfort, hope, and understanding to anyone who reads it. It is a reminder that you are not alone, you have what it takes to handle life's challenges, and you deserve to squeeze as much joy as you can out of your life right now, instead of feeling like you're waiting for it to start.

Review Quotes

"Journalist Nicola Slawson has had it with the idea that something is wrong with single women. Originally covering topics that uplifted single women via her newsletter The Single Supplement, she decided to formulate everything she's discovered into Single: Living a Complete Life on Your Own Terms. Readers will find charming and welcoming anecdotes about being single that doesn't feel like trauma dumping. She knows it's not always easy to live a single life, but she doesn't want you to succumb to the idea that it's impossible to find joy."
--Brit + Co

"[Slawson's] writing covers themes around single life, such as stigmas, finances, and family relations. It also honors a wide spectrum of feelings, from joy and empowerment to fear, confusion, and beyond."
--Maria Shriver's Sunday Paper

"Nicola is a warm and generous writer with a singular voice--she has brought balance, calm, and compassion to the conversation around being single. I want to gift her book to all my single friends."
--Daisy Buchanan, author of Careering and How to Be a Grown-Up

"I love Nicola Slawson's writing--she's so perceptive about life and love, and I don't think I'm the only Old Married who adores The Single Supplement. She has a rare talent for finding the story in vague trends, and is not afraid to bring a vulnerable, personal angle to her writing."
--Katherine May, New York Times bestselling author of Wintering and Enchantment

"Nicola manages to do a rare thing: she shows compassion for single people without pitying them. She celebrates their narrative while also understanding that they might change how they feel about it from one month to the next. And she helps them to search for connection in many different places, as well as to understand themselves better. I wish Single existed when I was single."
--Natasha Lunn, author of Conversations on Love

"Single made me feel better about my life--and I'm not even single right now. It's a warm, joyful book full of solidarity and lots of new ways of looking at single life. I'll be thinking about this book for a while!"
--Radhika Sanghani, author of 30 Things I Love About Myself

"Nicola Slawson is the authority on building the single life you deserve--and she's written the book that every single woman needs."
--Rebecca Reid, author of Rude

"Nicola is a trailblazer. Her work is a vital and necessary contribution to the evolving conversation about relationships."
--Vicky Spratt, author of Tenants

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